Just introduce him to your folks the way you would introduce a friend and let your parents lead the conversation. For me, it doesn't really matter where you're going to introduce him to them. What's important is that it's not that noisy so that all of you can hear each other

My boyfriend met my dad and one of my brothers at one of the birthday parties that we attended last fall but I plan to make the formal introduction to a restaurant in a formal dinner with my family members. Thanks for bringing it up.

Yes! The place should not be noisy. So, I guess that the home would be the best place. In that way, everyone would be comfortable except the man who may feel a bit of uneasiness.

Is it still okay for parents to react negatively when they perceived that the boyfriend whom their daughter had introduced to them failed on their standards?

I think that simple things as topics would do. It is not necessary to have his biography to be laid down on that introduction dinner.

I am also with the same dilemma here. The problem in a restaurant would be what if my dad won't like my bf and embarrass him and make a scene and I won't allow that to happen.

I would say: "Oh, this is my boyfriend." That's it. The conversation would go on until it comes to end.

A public place where the environment is not too silent and not too noisy. It would be awkward to tell stories when the other people near your table could hear everything that you say. Of course, you would have a hard time hearing each other on noisy environments.